Consciously using a Yoni Egg can be effective tool both to chaining pattern of the cellular memory and assisting in regaining a healthy balance in the sensual tissues. Our traumas hold within them a doorway into our most potent gifts, as very often we have blockages in the areas that we are most powerful. -Mystical FemininityI am equipped with all the facts I needed to know. This wasn't something I had to get it done as soon as possible; this is not something goal-oriented. It is about taking my time and enjoy every moment with my yoni egg. If the time is right, I'll just know.
The day I had the yoni egg in my hands, I immediately started to bond with it: placed it under my pillow inside a pouch before I sleep; charge it under the sun and under the full moon; meditate with it and feel it. Intuitively, I just knew what my yoni egg wanted.
Few days ago, I steamed my yoni with red roses as a way to prepare my yoni to receive the stone. I knew I had to get to cleanse and nourish my yoni before the sacred ritual. (The yoni steam is delicious treat to my yoni!)
When it was time, I let myself relax and breathe deeply. I made sure I was comfortable. I spritzed some perfume all over the room and lighted a vanilla scented candle. I let it submerged in a bowl of boiled water (not boiling hot, but hot enough that I can safely stick my finger in so I know it is safe for my yoni egg) for 15 minutes before inserting. I whispered my intentions to my yoni egg. I let my body feel what it it feels good to me. I coated the yoni egg with coconut oil and gently inserted it inside of me. I was smiling as I welcome it.
What to do once the yoni egg is inside the vagina? Dance. Meditate. Journal my feelings. Acknowledge the negative emotions in the womb and just it let it be without judgement. Exercise the pelvic muscles. Love my body with the yoni egg inside. Feel the yoni egg inside the womb.
Update: June 3, 2015
Here is my Rose Quartz Yoni Egg. It is so beautiful for my yoni!!!
What to do once the yoni egg is inside the vagina? Dance. Meditate. Journal my feelings. Acknowledge the negative emotions in the womb and just it let it be without judgement. Exercise the pelvic muscles. Love my body with the yoni egg inside. Feel the yoni egg inside the womb.
As soon as I inserted it, I hardly felt the yoni egg inside of me. I know it won't get lost inside my vagina. I did felt a slight movement of my pelvic muscles. I tried squeezing the yoni egg... but I couldn't feel it at all. For the first few hours I felt calm. I meditated. I was focused on my womb more now that my yoni egg is inside of me. I paid much attention to my energy rather than try and figure out everyone else's. It is draining to be with other people's space or energy especially if it isn't a positive one. I could feel that. But for now, this is all about me.
For the whole day, I started to feel like something sucked inside of me. Probably negative energies I had I kept for years. I also felt slightly hot and tired throughout the day. My eyes were a little watery. Still focusing on my womb space, I breathe and relaxed myself. Let go of control and surrender.
I tested it out while I was in one occasion. I asked someone with questions that I knew will upset me. (EDIT: I WAS ALREADY READY TO LET THIS PERSON GO EVEN BEFORE INSERTING MY EGG.) But it was quite the opposite: I felt compassion for the other person. I felt the love for me. I didn't focused too much on the other person if he/she liked me, but just let it go. Whatever it was he/she was feeling, I have no control over it but love, compassion and peace for myself. Just for me. THIS IS ALL ABOUT ME.
...and when I got home, after I used the bathroom, my yoni egg flopped out. Yup. It happens to every woman who uses the yoni egg. I don't want it yet to leave, but it did. Make sure the bathroom is always clean. :)
When I picked it up and cleansed it with mild soap and charge it energetically by burying it under the soil, smudge with sage or let it sit under the sun or full moon. I also noticed my yoni egg turned pale/white. I sent an email to their (OrganicBlood) customer service about it and here is their response:
The fact that the egg has transformed slightly in color doesn't represent tarnish of the stone's quality. Many women have reported noticing their quartz stones shifting in color perhaps as a sign of pulling certain negative energies out of them into the stone. Your stone may be continuously evolving just as you are. If you have not experience any negative side effects in your body, please use your best discretion when inserting.
If you are asking how long I should let my yoni egg be buried under the soil, it all depends on what I feel. If it's ready, I'd just feel it. And start over when the time is called for. There is no rush. I give it time.
I think every woman who is ready to take on this journey should use yoni eggs. It is a beautiful gift for any woman. There are lots of yoni eggs to choose from and the one that really draws you, is the yoni egg for you. This is a change from the inside out. Look inward and adore our femininity. I will continue using yoni eggs and add more if my body calls for it. I love listening to other women's journey when they used their yoni egg and watch them blossom from the inside.
Yoni Eggs are not advised for women who are: pregnant or think they are pregnant; are in their period; has IUD; vaginal infection (cure it first); the feel they have to be in control; or are in fear.
Important: Purchase quality yoni eggs, not fake ones.
xoxo,
Chloe